Ukuhamba Kokulila: Ukufuna Ukwelashwa Phakathi Kwabahambi

Ukulahlekelwa kufudulela abantu ngendlela ehlukile. Kudala, iningi lethu belizilile mathupha, ezindlini zethu, nomndeni oseduze kuphela. Kodwa manje, kukhula umkhuba omusha wokuhambela izindawo ezikhethekile zokulila, lapho abantu abanenhliziyo ebuhlungu behlangana khona ukwelashwa, ukukhuluma ngezinhlungu zabo, nokuthola ukusekelwa. Ungase uzibuze ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela. Kuhamba nje ngalokhu: abantu abaningi abasabafuni ukulila bodwa. Lapho uhlangabezana nokulahlekelwa okukhulu, kungaba ukushona komuntu omthandayo, ukwahlukana okubuhlungu, noma ushintsho olukhulu empilweni, uhamba kude ukuze uthole indawo lapho ungakhululeka khona futhi welashwe nabanye abaqonda ubuhlungu bakho.

Lo mkhuba omusha uvela ngokushesha, futhi uyakhula njengoba abahambi befuna ukwelashwa kwemizwa. Ngo-2024, iConde Nast Traveler yaqoka izindawo zokwelashwa kokulila njengenye yezinto eziyisikhombisa ezisemqoka ezihamba phambili zempilo nemigudu yokwelashwa. Lokho kusitshela okuthile ngendlela abantu abacabanga ngayo ngempilo nokwelashwa kwemizwa. NgoMeyi walo nyaka, iNational Geographic Traveler yaphawula ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zokuhamba zisiza abahambi ukwakha amandla okubhekana nokukhulula imizwelo egciniwe. Kuzwakala kunengqondo; ngubani ongakudingi ukwelashwa nokukhululeka ngemuva kwesigameko esibuhlungu empilweni?

Nakuba lo mkhuba wezokuvakasha zokulila ungasihleka usulu, ucwaningo lweGlobal Wellness Institute luka-2025 lwaveza ukuthi imikhuba yokulila nokusekelwa komphakathi ibikhona emikhakheni empucuko izinkulungwane zeminyaka. Lokho akusona isitifiketi esisha nje. Babazenza emandulo, kodwa umkhuba wawushabalala kancane kancane. Kusho ukuthi asibuyeli emuva, kodwa sithola kabusha okwakwaziwa abantu basendulo ngezidingo zokulashwa kwemizwa yomuntu. Umqondo wokulila nabanye, wokukhuluma ngezinhlungu esikhundleni sokuzibhinca, uthatha indawo ebalulekile. Kukhombisa ukuthi umuntu akasiphila yedwa, futhi ukwesekwa kubalulekile kulezi zikhathi ezinzima empilweni. Iqiniso limane nje ukuthi manje sikubona ngendlela entsha, ehambisana nesikhathi sethu. Kulula kakhulu ukuhamba ngalezi zikhathi ezinzima uma unomuntu ohamba naye eceleni, ukwesekwa komunye umuntu kungaba yisipho esiduduzayo. Abaningi bathola ukududuza okukhulu ngokuthola umngane wokuhamba nge-urlaubspartner.net, ikakhulukazi uma behambela lezi zindawo zokwelashwa.

Imakethe yokwelulekwa ngokulila ibonakala ikhula ngokushesha okukhulu. Izibalo ziveza ukuthi le makethe ingafinyelela ku-$4.52 billion (okusho ukuthi imali eyi-$3.89 billion nge-Euro) emhlabeni jikelele ngo-2029, isuke ku-$2.73 billion (okusho ukuthi imali eyi-$2.34 billion nge-Euro) ngo-2022. Lokhu kukhuphuka kwenziwa ikakhulukazi ukwamukeleka okwandayo kwezinkinga zengqondo jikelele, kanye nezinkinga ezingokwengqondo ezihlobene nokulila. Uma umuntu ephila ngemizwa egciniwe, lokho kungambangela izinkinga eziningi. Ukungakhuluma ngekhanda lakho akusizi. Ngakho-ke, abantu manje basebenzisa lezi ndlela ukuze bathole usizo olufanele, baqede izinkinga zabo, futhi baphile impilo ephelele. Lo mkhondo ukhomba ezweni lapho impilo yengqondo ibaluleke njengempilo yomzimba.

I-Global Retreat Company e-UK ine-website yayo enesigaba esiphelele sezindawo zokwelashwa kokulila. Bachaza lezi zindawo ngokuthi 'zakhelwe ukulashwa ngokulahlekelwa kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo, zinikeza indawo yokukhulisa eholwa abelashi abaqeqeshiwe abakuqondisa kahle ngemizwa yakho'. Lokho kusho ukuthi uya lapho futhi uhlangana nabantu abaqeqeshiwe, abazoqonda isimo sakho futhi bakusize uphume kuso. Awudingi ukukwenza wedwa noma uzame ukwelapha wena.

Esifundazweni sasePeloponnese eGreece, ngaphansi kwezinsalela zakwa-Mystras eziqashelwa yi-UNESCO, kukhona i-Euphoria Retreat. Le ndawo iphethwe ngumelaphi ogxile emandleni, futhi igxile ekubuyiseni impilo ngamandla emvelo. Leli yindawo ethulile, enezihlahla ze-pine ezizungezile. Izinhlelo zabo, ezinjengokwelashwa 'kokulingana kwemizwa', zihlose ukusiza abantu ababhekene nezikhathi ezibuhlungu ukuba baqhubeke nempilo. I-Euphoria Retreat futhi inikeza izindlela zokwelapha ezikhethekile ezihlanganisa ukusebenzisa amandla agcwele, ukwelulekwa okusekelayo, kanye nokwelashwa kwemvelo ukucubungula ukulahlekelwa okujulile. Uma ufuna ozokuhambela naye isikhathi esise-Euphoria Retreat, ukusebenzisa i-urlaubspartner.net kungakusiza ukuthola umhambi onomqondo ofanayo.

Ngesiqhingi sase-Ile de Ré, eduze nogu olusentshonalanga yeFrance, kunesinye isizinda sokwelashwa esibizwa ngokuthi i-Therapy Haven, esedolobheni laseLa Flotte. Lapha, labo abadinga ukusekelwa bangahlala ezindlini ezincane ngasese lapho bekwazi ukulungisa ukudla kwabo. Bangakhetha noku-oda ukudla okwenziwe ngezinto eziphilayo, okungavamile, okwenziwe ngemifino yendawo esuke ikhule lapho ngangokunokwenzeka. Lokhu kufana nokubuyela emandulo, lapho yonke into yayingokwemvelo.

Lezi zindawo zokwelashwa zihloswe kubantu ngabanye, abashadayo, nabaphathi abafuna ukubhekana nezimbangela zokucindezeleka kwemizwa. Umuntu uyakwazi ukuthola usizo olufanele empilweni yakhe. E-Therapy Haven, umuntu angathola indawo yokuphefumula, lapho engezwa khona ukuthi akasodwa, futhi lapho engezwa khona ukuthi kukhona abantu abazomqondisa bathole izixazululo. Kungumkhuba omuhle kakhulu. Leli yizwe elisha lokuvakasha, lapho ukwelashwa kokulila sekudlangile kakhulu, ngokusho kwe-Euronews Travel.